lundi 29 décembre 2014

Guide To Proper Meditation For Couples

By Stacey Burt


Many people have been suffering from various illnesses because of one factor that is not even caused any damage or change to the body systems. Stress has the capacity to make you feel things and even your health is affected. And sometimes, it can be too powerful that it can also meddle with your relationships. And if you are married, having fights frequently because of it is never a good sign.

When couples fight, it is usually because they are having a bad day and one just got the way of the other. Fighting is something that is normal but when it is too frequent, it never is. There are several ways that this can be remedied and one effective way is undergoing meditation for couples. Through doing this together, you will come to understand each other more.

Meditation has been existing for quite some time now. And it has proven itself in so many ways from improving some of the functions of the organs to ridding your brain of the turmoil that causes stress. It also has a lot of emotional benefits that it is usually recommended if you are feeling out of sorts.

Today, this is an activity that is not only for individual doing, it can also be a form of therapy for couples. More and more relationships have been healed and strengthened because people choose to do this activity together. If you are having marital problems and is undergoing counseling for it, you might want to try meditating together.

Before you jump to this idea, be sure that your partner also wants the same thing. It would not work unless both of you are in it together. The balance and the harmony lies in the harmony of your decisions as well. And if one does not agree, you cannot expect that they would sit down with you some place for several minutes just to do it.

Negative emotions will be reduced when you are in the state of meditation. And you tend to focus on some of the most vivid details. These two elements can be really essential when you are trying to make up and fix something. If your partner feels the same way, the easier the process becomes and the lesser and lesser chance you tend to fight as well.

Both of you need to find a place where you can meditate. As a prerequisite, this must be a space that is quite and free from distractions. If you opt to do this at home, you need to turn off all the devices including your phones. You can also turn on the answering machine. Power down the computers and try to turn off everything that might provide distractions to you while you are meditating.

There is no particular position that you need to do when you are doing it. But the most recommended one would be sitting crossed legged and back to back with each other. This way, you would be able to feel the presence of the other. By taking deep breaths, you can notice that the chaos in the mind starts to ebb away.

Once you start the breathing, you will notice all the thoughts coming to focus. The process would do best if you just let the memories flow in to you. And then you should just observe as they slowly fade away and let the calmness take over you.




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